Monday, November 16, 2009

12 days: note to self - remember to have fun! (love, char)

with this drumstick, i thee wed

Jason snapped this picture during our very first wedding rehearsal. I think the look on Asher's face (my cute page boy!) is priceless!

Recently i spoke to a fren (i'll protect her identity. heh) who is emceeing for a fren's wedding. And she was telling me that this fren was so undecided on most things. For some sadistic reason, it made me feel good... cos i am not alone! Wahahhaa. :)

In the midst of wedding planning, sometimes we lose sight of the reason why we fell in love in the first place. I think CF's comment on how a wedding can be planned in 48 hours actually sparked something in me. As ridiculous as it sounds, its true. If wedding planning brings you away from the happiness that you are going to celebrate, then its quite sad dounch ya think?

In fact, Vincent my hairstylist puts it succinctly; enjoy the moment he says. He was talking in the context of having kids lah (mind you, he has three! wahhhh). But i take it one step back and remind myself that i must enjoy the wedding planning and i must enjoy the wedding.

For all it's worth, i'm going to have fun :) Which brings us back one full circle on having our wedding central on the theme of fun. After all, a gown can be super pretteee, the make up can be $1000 flawless and you can have the slimmest hot body... but take it from one international wedding blog hopper... it's the radiance in the couple's smile and face that brings the house down, any day, any photo :)

PARTY ON PEEEPORRR! :) :)

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